14 High School Secrets For Every girl

High school experience helped me prove all my expectations created by watching high school movies and dramas wrong.
Even tho my expectations were just like every girl wants, like having a tall, good-looking boyfriend with a car, get excellent grades, be the face of the school in every field. Basically a high school superstar.
All it took was one full week to realize about all I thought was dead wrong. The reality was I didn't know how to deal with changing friendships, lots to homework, finding what I really wanted to achieve at the end of my school term, last but not least which guy to date.
It has been 6 years since I graduated from high school and even though I can't rewind my life to bring back those days so that I can delete my mistakes.
No doubts learning from your mistakes is the best way to learn, but sometimes learning from somebody else's errors saves you making those mistakes in the first place.
So I have summed up 14 high school lessons my friends and I learnt from high school mistakes.. so you don’t have to.

#1. The favorite groups of high school are not always the best to follow

When I just a fresher, I wanted to be a part of the most popular group of, so I asked my elder sister, and she advised me to do more socializing physically and virtually like Instagram, Facebook and etc.
Wrong advice-I tried but was not about to do well in both the socializing fields, instead I found 6 girls who mean more than family to me even till now and forever.
Be with people who don’t want you to change but to accept you the way you are. Whether your best friends are in that favorite group or not its not necessary, as long as you share a close bond with them personally it's all good.
‘’ Having a small number of good friends are more than what you even need to be happy.’’

#2. Trust Your Gut Feeling

I promised my self not to drink in high school, whether anybody does it or not but I won't. Even if your best friend says ‘ it’s ok ‘ to drink a little nothing will happen,’ but a no is a strict no.
Do nothing that you don’t feel is a right call. Because if you think its wrong, it means it is wrong. If everyone is making that mistake doesn’t say it is not a mistake.

#3. Seniors are nice and helpful

We all have seniors, and it doesn’t mean they all are there to hurt you in one way or the other. Getting to know them via interaction and activities will not only help you to become fearless but also will help you in your grades and make you aware of which teacher is what.

#4. Homework is a must

We all know that the first year always includes relaxing and warm-ups for the rest of your high school life.
As time passes, you will have to improve and achieve more than expected off you. Adapting good study habits and discipline is always helpful.
I am lazy till date, and last minute person, but even then every time I was given an assignment I used to break it down into small parts and do it little by little and compile them together at the end of it.
Learn to be honest and hardworking because it does pay off 100% at the end on your report cards. Don’t touch social media while studying.

#5 Changes are fact reality

Growin from a teenager to an entirely gone adult is a change too which you have no control over, but it happens to everyone whether they like it or they don’t, so don’t be afraid of them.
Use the changes as an opportunity to become a better person than yesterday, it will not only give you a morale boost but always raise your confidence and make you stronger everytime you overcome a change for the next one.

#6 Your Bae don’t mean everything

Nothing will make you feel better than a guy who you love holds your hands and makes you feel happy, Don’t let that feeling of having a guy ruin your life.
The ultimate truth is when you fail your subjects your bae won't help you pass, and also you will want to be with him more than do what you are there to do at school.
Be focused on why you are at school as having a boyfriend option is always present on your cards.

#7 Look for your passion. then just a boyfriend

High school is the best place to try and test to know your ability and area of interest as once you find that is, you can groom your self over time to get better and better in something you always were passionate to do.
As good opportunities are missed when you have grown old and always haunt you with one question… what if I ?.....

#8 Always Think you are alone

Other views are prone to change, as what is right for them today can be wrong for them, and if you go with the same flow, you will never find yourself confident and secured, as you have more confidence in what others think than what you think about it.
It's like giving control of your life to, and if people run your life, then you can never be at peace and reach the success you always wanted.

#9 Your image is in your hands

Only you can make or break your reputation. Take full responsibility for your own actions as you have complete control over how you react to situations. It is always nice to remember even years after to be an A-lister in studies, sports, and other activities at school than a social queen.

# 10 Never Let Expectations take over

Expectations enter your life in many ways, sometimes through parents, friends, teachers, social, siblings and many more. But there is only one way to master any expectation is to give 100% and be satisfied 100% with the effort you offered to do it.
Don worry about criticism as it's healthy, don’t get angry when criticised. If you are happy the way, you have worked then criticism only proves when you have done well as ‘’ we only hit stones at a tree which has mangoes and not those trees which don’t have no fruits on them.’’

#11 Don’t over exhaust yourself

High school means a lot of work to be done and to be learned and there could be nights when you will just study and doing nights consistently can burn you out.
Making you feel exhausted even early morning, talk to your teachers and tell them about your situation, maybe they will give you an extension so you can relax your mind.

#12 Mistakes are common

We all make mistakes, no human being on earth has never made mistakes, whether they are big or small.
But to repeat the mistake is stupidity but learning from them and not repeating them is Wise. So if you want to be wise learn from your mistakes and don’t keep repeating them.

#13 Wait till your high school is over

A lot of girls start thinking about college, shortly after they have entered high school. First, complete high school and then you can think about college.
We all know you have to finish high school and beat the best college, but it won't become a reality if you don’t do well with your high school grades, so why think unnecessarily.
Live in the present, to make a bright future.

#14 Life is not all just about reaching Goals

Goals come and go, they are prone to change just as =our life. But we are blessed with something call present which we all live in, why not enjoy it and live every single moment with happiness and joy while at school.
Once you are out of high school you competition will rise, and all the fun will start fading away, and the race will replace it.
So, make every moment count, whether its good, bad or ugly, focus on making the most out of every moment as high school life is the best life one will always remember and feel right about.
So, make it worth remembering with having good friends, discipline, honestly, good grades which will automatically lead you to a prosperous career.

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